by Raluca Graebner | Mar 19, 2020 | Leadership361
A client told me yesterday she was so distracted that she could barely focus on work. A leader I know almost fired one of his best employees this week over a small transgression. My dental hygienist started crying when I thanked her at the end of our appointment (one...
by Raluca Graebner | Mar 6, 2020 | Leadership361
Sarah is a star performer, by all objective measures. In the past 4 years, she has been promoted twice, the last time to manage a team of 50 people. And yet, when she came to me, Sarah revealed her deep insecurities about not being good enough. Because Sarah was...
by Raluca Graebner | Dec 19, 2019 | Leadership361
A few years ago a client of mine came into a coaching session and pretty much talked nonstop for a full hour. I interjected very little, except to really give him my full attention and ask one or two questions. At the end he got up from his chair exclaiming:...
by Raluca Graebner | Sep 26, 2019 | Leadership361
Tina is an excellent lawyer: smart, technically competent, and empathetic; clients love working with her. However, her tendency to put herself in the shoes of her juniors also means that she avoids providing tough feedback to them because it makes them feel...
by Raluca Graebner | Aug 13, 2019 | Leadership361
A couple of weeks ago I took a two-day class: it was one of those rare occurrences which, in a small yet important way, changed my life. The workshop—on “finding your voice”—was offered by the business arm of The Royal Academy for Dramatic Arts (RADA) and it was...